Friday, June 6, 2008

Right and Wrong


Right is something which is said to be ‘socially correct’. Some others may define right as something that is in conformance with the law and the order of the land. Right has come to be believed as something that the society deems correct, the society agrees with and that with which the societal values coincide. So in short it is thus safe to come to the conclusion that right is something that is accepted by the society and thus can be said to be morally, ethically and socially right. I will come to the part about society later.

Wrong is something which is not in accord with established code of conduct. It can also be said to be something that is contrary to the conscience or morality of law. Wrong is in simpler words the exact opposite of right. Here we take wrong in a negative connotation.
Now one question that crops up in my mind and I am sure in each of our minds is that when we say a particular thing/path/action is 'right' while the other is 'wrong', why do we say so? Who determines this? Who distinguishes them and why do we take things as acceptable and unacceptable? What makes the human psyche think in such a manner and how 'right' or 'wrong' really are the things?

Most say it is the society that decides but then comes my above point which I didn’t deal with then, who is this 'society' and how does it decide? Why does the so called ‘society’, assuming such a body exists, decide and differentiate between these things?

Society can be taken to be a group of individuals that are primarily characterized by common interests, needs and goals. It is also said to be a totality of all human relationships and organisations. If we take this to be true then it is safe to assume that every living being would be a part of society per se and hence be involved in the decision making process of right and wrong. However this is not so since objectively speaking no person would do something he himself has christened as wrong. Assuming such a society does decide the right and wrong, the question now arises that on what basis is the punishment decided for committing a wrong?

“Society is one vast conspiracy for carving one into the kind of statue it likes and then placing it in the most convenient niche it has”
- Randolph Bourne

Some say that humans are born with an innate sense of moral responsibility and a sense of justice, a sense of right and wrong. Now the question arises that are some more fortunate than others in this gift and thus some go on the ‘right path’ and some on the ‘wrong path’? Also it is important to note that many a times what is considered right in some parts/places is considered wrong in the others. What is the reason for that? Does this sense we possess differ so much? Why is say for example abortion or mercy killing legal or ‘right’ in some countries while illegal or ‘wrong’ in the others?

Many also say that it is the society we live in that grooms us, teaches us and influences our decisions of right and wrong. If that is so does this merely increase our innate sense and give it meaning or does it over write what we were supposed to be born with?

The last point that I come to is that is there even a society that exists or is it a fragment of our imagination, something we can blame our faults upon. Does there exist this amalgamation of bodies, of humans, of organisations that decides or is instrumental in the way we think and analyze or are we our own people, merely individuals, who decide for ourselves?

‘Society exists only as a mental concept, in the real world there are only individuals’
- Oscar Wilde

7 comments:

Rishu said...

a great thought... well written.. I would like to pose question... Would commenting be considered as right or wrong? :D hehehe
keep up the good work. And write some songs for me instead :D... :D
do consider this option as well :d hehehe

Kanta said...

Right and Wrong...

Ever since a toddler starts to understand, he/she is thought what is right and what is wrong...this continues as he/she grows up until he /she starts questioning the rules...and starts to make decision own rules of what is right and wrong according to him/her.

We hate rules but rules are necessary to keep order in society. If each is allowed to do its own thing than government wouldn't function and society would collapse. Whether the current leader is right or wrong, or an organization is good or bad for the people is a not an individual decision, it's a decision taken by individuals on whether the agenda of the leader or the party are right or wrong.

For each person who thinks one rule is right there is another who thinks its wrong. It will always be that way, because human mind is designed to question what it sees, hear and listens.

Rohan said...

i guess the only difference between right and wrong is perception. in my opinion, 'right' or 'wrong' is more in your heart than in the hands of society. as long as you can stand by what you do, i believe you're right. in some way this post is relatable to the one on choices. unfortunately right is wrong is voided when it comes to justice and the law. its better not getting into that :)

on a lighter note, i really loved the post. keep it up. you now have one more reader :)

Shruti Chopra said...

@ Rishabh
Commenting is always right my friend... haha...
And about the alternate option, I'm not good as yet... once I am surely will take you up on that offer!

Shruti Chopra said...

@ Kanta

I agree with the fact that rules are important but does a society really exist or is a bunch of people who are supposedly incharge of making these rules the actual 'society'?
for eg. if i do something which are not in tandem with the rules does that make me wrong?

Also if for every person who thinks one rule is right there is a person who percieves it as wrong is there actually any right or wrong because then can't the person who is said to be wrong actually be right?

Just some thoughts!

Shruti Chopra said...

@ Rohan

As much as I believe that it is to a large extent on perception we do consider the 'societal' rights and wrongs.

Also if it is about our hearts telling us we our right or wrong then it is that there are only individuals and not societies right?

Kanta said...

Shruti, it's an individual who decide what is wrong and right, whether they use the rules they are taught or make up their own rules, but you figure it out what is right and wrong. Sometimes it's a judgment call as looking at an action not for one person but as what is good for a whole group of people. Remember in democratic country we elect the people in power, we make the judgment call on the election day...based on our belief the person has right agenda for the common good.